September 4, 2008 - 2:00 pm
, By Marc--Michigan State

Open relationships are not just a thing of the past, something your parents tried out on the weekends back in the 70’s before STDs existed. They are alive and well today. And I’m here to explain some of the pros and cons of such a relationship for those of you who may be interested in giving it a try, or who want your friend to give it a try so you can get with his girlfriend that’s too hot for him.
I have a good friend, I’ll call her Sandy, who recently decided that open was the best kind of relationship, so all of my advice is the direct result of her actual experiences that have been rehashed to me. My friend’s trial run didn’t turn out so well, she and her boyfriend eventually broke up, but she insists that it wasn’t all bad and that she’d do it again given the opportunity.
Check out the Pros and Cons of an Open Relationship after the break! Read More »
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Tags: bf, boyfriend, cheating, Fantasy, gf, girlfriend, hook-up, hooked up, hooking-up, monogamy, multiple sex partners, open, open-relationship, relationship, Sex, sex partners, sexy time, threesome, trading, voyeur
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July 25, 2008 - 1:30 pm
, By Editor
Two weeks ago, a buddy of mine (we’ll call him Ted) wasn’t allowed to attend a “Penthouse party” on the upper east side.
Why?
His girlfriend wouldn’t let him. It was a glorified house party on a rooftop, but since the word “Penthouse” was used she cracked the whip.
Long story short, the kid is whipped unlike anything I’ve ever seen–and he has no idea. You could write a movie called Whipped and he would be the main character. His Facebook relationship status literally says married (they’ve only been dating six months) and yet he’s in the dark about his whippage–as a man, it’s just damn sad.
If you have a girlfriend, AskMen’s Top 10 Signs You Are Whipped is an absolute must read because like Ted you might be blind to your whippeage.
July 8, 2008 - 12:30 pm
, By COED Staff

Women confuse men. That’s a given. But it’s not because we don’t learn from our past relationships; we just forget everything we learned in the time between one and the next. And we only remember how different the two genders are when a woman’s inherent eccentricities rear their wild head, once again.
To keep things in check, we’ve compiled a cheat sheet to help you keep your girl’s differences in perspective with COED’s 13 Facts About Women Men Forget. So no matter how cool the chick, chances are she (is)…
Full of Sh*t: Before you call NOW, let us just say that this is only a periodic trait, and exists in varying degrees. Most of the time, it comes out in what we like to call a “game,” but outside of a relationship it’s called lying. Basically, she tells you one thing, but means something more than her words. (Words only seem to matter when she remembers to use yours against you.) Other times, it happens when she thinks lying serves a purpose greater than the truth of the moment. So, she might have gone to lunch with her ex and said she didn’t–but he was a dick like usual, so it wasn’t a big enough deal to tell you about (i.e., she cares about you enough to not want to hurt your feelings, but not enough to stop looking elsewhere). Now, try going out with your ex… Read More »
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June 26, 2008 - 3:45 pm
, By Elizabeth - Baruch College

Listen, guys. I am a lady who has had sexual intercourse…oh…say….more than a few times. I am also a lady who does not want any STDs. Therefore, I am a lady who has safe sex. That means, you, male lovers, wear a condom.
Now most guys in my past haven’t thought twice about wearing a condom. Turns out most guys don’t want STDs, either! However, there have been a few who have whined…and even one more recently who made sex nearly impossible-because of condoms.
“I just can’t feel anything”…
“I don’t know how ANY guy can can come with these things…”
Those are two lines I heard from two separate guys in the last two weeks.
These remarks have infuriated me to the degree of broadcasting some tips to all of the male readers out there. Mind you, I’m well aware of the fact that MOST guys don’t mind condoms. But for those of you who do…. Read More »
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Tags: condoms, crabs, dick, diseases, friction, lady, lover, lovers, lube, lubricant, New-York, NYC, nytimes, oral-sex, relationship, rubbers, safe-sex, Sex, sexual intercourse, std, trojan
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June 26, 2008 - 9:30 am
, By COED Staff
Picking up the tab on the first date is always an awkward moment. Do you offer? Do you just sit there looking around the room and wait for him to take it? What do your actions say about you as a person? In this week’s He Said/She Said, we dive into first date etiquette. Who should be grabbing their wallet?
He Said:
Paying on the first date is completely inconsequential to me. I seriously don’t care. If I asked you out, then me paying makes sense to me, based only on logic. However, if she wants to pay, that’s fine, too. It doesn’t make me feel like any less of a man. Especially if I’ve somehow tricked some super-employed high powered lady into dating me (bonus!). Read More »
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June 23, 2008 - 4:00 pm
, By A.D. - Columbia College

I need to say this. Jewelry sucks. And I hate buying it for women and I think I’m done buying it forever–at least until I decide to get engaged. Honestly, is there a more useless thing on this planet then jewelry?
Completely ignoring the entire system of imbalance that permeates men/women romantic relationships when it comes to gift-giving and buying dinner etc, could I please get you something else? Something worthwhile. Something that doesn’t cost a fucking arm and leg to prove to you that I’m into you as a person?
Here’s some reasons why jewelry is stupid. Read More »
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June 12, 2008 - 11:30 am
, By Andrew - Hunter College

To get laid, the most you need is scented candles, massage oil and Barry White’s greatest hits. But anything more than that requires a bit more work. Say you’ve gone out on a couple of dates. She’s beautiful, chill and gets your jokes. You’re relaxed, funny, and genuinely enjoying yourself. You both know it’s going to the next step of something more serious. What do you do now? Below is a complete list of all you need to know to keep her around–and off your back!
Path out the full path from Manimal to Man after the jump! Read More »
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February 14, 2008 - 1:15 pm
, By Hadley V. - George Mason

Hey! It’s Valentine’s Day! Exclamation point!
If you’re anything like me, you find Valentine’s Day silly and not important in the grand scheme of a relationship. Still, you would be quite the a**hole to not show some sort of nice gesture on the holiday. If anything, mocking it is the best way to go. If your girl isn’t a humorless sack of ice in the lap, reserve a candlelit dinner at White Castle, or something to that extent. Do something fun and spontaneous that doesn’t require you or her stressing about money.
Or, you can order a gift today to be delivered in the near future. Who cares if it arrives late - it’s a gift. Who gets mad about receiving a gift, really? Read More »
December 18, 2007 - 10:30 am
, By Mike - Montclair State U

We’ve all got sex fantasies. But what do the fantasies you dream about mean? Read below and find out that maybe you aren’t as weird as you (and your friends and family) think.
1: Class Mate/Co-worker
People you see everyday often pop up first when you scroll through your mental menu for masturbatory fodder. But one study found that 38 percent of guys feel guilty about these type of fantasies. Hooking up with a girl from class is easy work but unless Bar Rafaeli sits next to you, think about a stranger instead.
2: Group sex
Group sex can imply a few things. One, if you fantasize about this you may have an innate fear of rejection because in real life you can’t approcch so many lover so you leave it to imagination. Two, you may have a sexual appetite that can’t be satisfied in reality. Three, fantasizing about group sex could mean you crave lots of simulation and creativity – after all, you say, what good are two breasts if you can touch four? Read More »
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November 20, 2007 - 9:45 am
, By Jess - NYU

Blind dates can be scary. They can also be fun. The scary / fun part depends on your idea of a good time and your date’s idea of normal.
Most of us go on blind dates pretty confident we’re not about to meet our soulmate, but always hope there’s enough of a connection to make dressing up to impress worth it. Blind dates are our way of doing something fun and spontaneous, something slightly nerve wracking but full of possibilities, a reason to get out of the house or apartment and have a drink made by somebody else.
The only thing is, if you’re not big into internet profiles and don’t have a lot of friends trying to go all “Matchmaker’ on you, blind dates don’t actually happen that often.
That is, unless you sign up for Crazy Blind Date. Read More »
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